Real people, real stories

“Tammy and her network are amazing! She takes such personal pride in ensuring the people in her network are real and quality. She then works with them and some select matchmakers to present a thoughtfully curated and genuine profile. She was prompt with acknowledging my interest and introducing me to a match all within 1-2 days. We’ve gone out a few times already and look forward to more!”

-Andrew K.

“I have had a great experience working with Tammy through Bashert Exchange. From the start, it’s clear this isn’t just another dating app—it’s a much more thoughtful and personal approach. The one-on-one Zoom call alone delivers real value. Tammy takes the time to understand who you are, what you’re looking for, and how to approach dating more effectively.

What stands out is how hands-on she is. She doesn’t rely on algorithms or volume—she’s actively involved in making meaningful connections. She also shares practical, relevant advice on things people genuinely struggle with, like how to reach out and even something like ghosting Tammy is blunt (don’t do it) and tries to make this a great place to meet people, which makes the experience feel guided rather than frustrating.

Tammy is easy to talk to, engaged, and clearly invested in helping people find real connections. You can tell she cares, and that comes through in every interaction. In a dating landscape that often feels impersonal and overwhelming, Bashert Exchange is a refreshing alternative.

What she’s building is meaningful. It brings intention and humanity back into the process, and that alone makes it worth being part of.

Help build this community with positive vibes and sharing your great interactions with Tammy.”

-Joshua F.

“Tammy has been great to work with as a matchmaker. She is very responsive, thoughtful and really cares about me and the person I'm trying to meet. The other thing worth mentioning is that with Bashert Exchange, she has created a great service that is valuable to the Jewish community, and something not easily found elsewhere. Thank you Tammy!”

-Blair S.

“I joined The Bashert Exchange on April 30 and completed my intake form on May 21. Tammy and I had our Zoom call on June 15, and during that conversation she was very honest and thoughtful about managing expectations, which I appreciated.

The very next day, on June 16, I was contacted by two different matchmakers after Tammy had shared my profile and contact information with them. One of those introductions led me to meet a wonderful woman, and we ended up talking on Zoom for three hours. We already have a second date scheduled, and I am excited to see where it goes.

I am grateful to be in Tammy’s database and, more importantly, to be on her radar. Dating can be tricky, but Tammy is truly trying to make the craziness feel a little less crazy.

What also stood out to me is that my connections came through two other matchmakers, which speaks to the network Tammy is cultivating. That is truly valuable. It is not just about her own roster of people, but also about who she knows, the relationships she is building, and the broader matchmaking networks she can tap into.

I would encourage others to join The Bashert Exchange and give themselves the opportunity to be seen, considered, and thoughtfully introduced.”


Felix K.

“I have had a fantastic experience working with Tammy Salis at the Bashert Exchange. She truly listens, cares, and puts in the effort to understand her members and helps them build real connections. Tammy is always proactive and clearly wants her clients to succeed. It is evident from everything she does that she cares deeply about her members’ well-being and success in the dating world. I highly recommend Bashert Exchange to anyone seeking a personal, professional Jewish matchmaking experience.”

-Scott M.

“I’ve had a great experience with Bashert Exchange. Tammy is kind, thoughtful, and truly cares about helping people connect. It really feels like she’s doing a mitzvah for the community. I’ve already been on two successful dates and am hopeful it leads to something long-term. I’m very grateful to Tammy for making these introductions possible.”

-Coby G.

“Tammy is phenomenal and has done an outstanding job with The Bashert Exchange. She took the time to really get to know me and understand what I am looking for in a partner. Her passion for this work is easy to see, and I have enjoyed watching her create meaningful opportunities and connections within the Jewish community.

What impresses me most is Tammy's natural ability to bring people together. I've personally had three introductions through The Bashert Exchange, and each one reflected the thought, care, and attention she puts into understanding people and recognizing potential compatibility.

Tammy is an exceptional connector who genuinely wants to help others find meaningful relationships. Her passion for the Jewish community, combined with her dedication to creating opportunities for connection, is evident in everything she does. She approaches this work with sincerity, heart, and a true desire to see people succeed.

I strongly recommend Tammy to anyone who is open to a more intentional approach to meeting someone. She truly cares about the people she works with, and you can feel her commitment, compassion, and dedication in everything she does.”

Eric A.